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Stop seeking and be present in your own life. Pick something you want to do, for yourself, because if that's where you want to make friends, you want to make friends doing something you enjoy. I've read that social science estimates that it takes 40 hours of presence and shared activity to turn an acquaintance into a friend, and another 50, I think, to become close friends.

If you really want to dig deep, get in therapy or find a support group that's not an insult, I just honestly think we all have shit we can work on, usually more than we realize. Happiness and security are attractive and if you're social you'll be more likely to meet people organically. Find a hobby, find a cause, make some friends, improve yourself. If you can't maintain friendships how is any woman going to think you're capable of maintaining a healthy relationship? And who even are you?įortunately the solution to your question and this problem are the same (although unfortunately complicated by the pandemic). "No social life" is kind of a red flag, man.